Monday, February 17, 2025

Using Alternative Healing in Grief

A wise man ought to realize that health is his most valuable possession. ~ Hippocrates

Alternative healing refers to a broad range of medical practices and therapies that are used instead of conventional (mainstream) medicine. These treatments are often based on cultural traditions, holistic approaches, or natural remedies. While some alternative therapies have scientific support, many lack rigorous clinical testing to confirm their effectiveness. Still, alternative therapies can be valuable tools for coping with grief by offering holistic approaches that address emotional, physical, and spiritual healing. 

Alternative therapies that may help during the grieving process include the following:

Art TherapyDrawing, painting, sculpting, or other creative activities provide a non-verbal way to express grief. When processing emotions that may be difficult to put into words, art therapy can help. 

Music TherapyListening to, playing, or composing music can be a powerful way to connect with emotions. Certain sounds or songs may bring comfort, positive memories and a sense of connection to lost loved ones.

Aromatherapy - Diffusing oils, using scented candles, or applying oils during massage can provide comfort. Essential oils like lavender, frankincense, and rose can help calm emotions and promote relaxation.

Energy Healing (Reiki, Acupuncture, or Healing Touch) - Reiki and similar energy-healing techniques help balance the body’s energy fields, potentially easing emotional pain. Acupuncture may relieve physical symptoms of grief, such as tension and fatigue.

Meditation & MindfulnessGuided meditation, breathing exercises, and body scans can help with emotional regulation. Such practices encourage presence in the moment and help to reduce overwhelming thoughts.

Yoga & Movement Therapy - Gentle movement, like yoga, tai chi, or dance therapy, helps release stored grief in the body. Specific poses (e.g., child’s pose, heart-openers) support emotional healing.

Journaling & Writing TherapyWriting letters to a lost loved one, keeping a grief journal, or writing poetry can help process emotions. Such activities allow for reflection, expression, and sometimes even communication with the deceased in a symbolic way.

Hypnotherapy - Can help access subconscious emotions and facilitate healing, and may assist in processing trauma and reducing anxiety related to loss.

Animal-Assisted Therapy - Petting, feeding, or simply being around animals can reduce stress and loneliness. Interacting with companion animals or trained therapy animals can provide emotional support.

Crystal Healing - Some believe that, whether used in meditation, carried as a comfort object, or placed in the home, certain crystals (e.g., rose quartz, amethyst, black onyx) can help with emotional healing, 

Sound Therapy (Singing Bowls, Chimes, or Binaural Beats) - Sound baths or listening to healing frequencies can promote calmness and clarity. Vibrational frequencies can help with emotional release and relaxation.

Nature Therapy (Ecotherapy & Forest Bathing) - Connecting with nature can provide a sense of renewal and peace. Spending time in nature, gardening, or walking in the woods can be grounding and healing.

Since each individual experiences grief differently, it’s important to find what resonates best. Sometimes, combining alternative therapies with traditional grief counseling or support groups can offer the most comprehensive healing approach.

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© by Marty Tousley, RN, MS, FT