Understanding and Managing Grief, June 19 - June 25, 2011

Best selections from Grief Healing's Twitter stream this week:

• Friend Grief: Giving a Eulogy for Your Friend, http://bit.ly/myW8kx via @friendgrief 

• Getting On With Life – What Does It Mean? by guest blogger Alice Wisler, http://bit.ly/iEAw3h via @Esdeer

• Ten Things Not to Say to Baby Loss Parents, http://ow.ly/5nj0P via @Kristine_Brite

•  Mother Loss: What I Didn’t Expect When Grieving, http://bit.ly/iO9AW8 via @emembrance via @ChelseaHanson

• What I tell my granddaughter about her mother's suicide, http://bit.ly/jc1apt via @globeandmail @afspnational 

Caregiving and Hospice, June 19 - June 25, 2011

Best selections from Grief Healing's Twitter stream this week:

• Making pets a part of your caregiving routine, http://tinyurl.com/69nauvk via @caracappa 

• Online Seminar: Talking with Older Drivers about Safety, http://aarp.us/wntt5 via @AARPdsp

• 13 Secrets that Make Caregiving Easier, http://bit.ly/kF9JVO via @wellwritwitch

• 50-50 Rule: How adult siblings can help aging parents, http://bit.ly/iSQh6I via @wellwritwitch 

• Minnesota program helps patients discuss end-of-life planning, http://bit.ly/ltLc4p via @hospicepharmacy 

Coping with Pet Loss, June 19 - June 25, 2011

Best selections from Grief Healing's Twitter stream this week:

• Another reason to support and love hospice, http://ow.ly/5oUPn @jessicajohanna @vTinaB @renee_berry via @TheYoungTurks

• My dog memoir, recommended by @BFAS. Available in eBook and Paperback, http://amzn.to/hOE0YQ by @MarkJAsher

• Outstanding! Suffering: Barking Up the Wrong Tree, http://bit.ly/NEPHSuffering by @NEPetHospice via @PetEndofLife

• The Cost of Caring, http://bit.ly/kl42z2 by Speaking for Spot

• Don't postpone hospice care for fear of relinquishing beloved pets, http://t.co/4Eq0sB9 via @petpeaceofmin

Camp Widow 2011

In case you're not aware of it, I want to tell you about a wonderful program offered by the Soaring Spirits Loss Foundation.  An annual event created by widows for widows, Camp Widow™ is a weekend-long gathering of widowed people from across the country, and around the world, coming together to create a community that understands the life altering experience of widowhood. Camp Widow™ provides practical tools, valuable resources, and peer-based encouragement for rebuilding your life in the aftermath of the death of a spouse--all in a fun, uplifting, laughter-filled atmosphere.

This year, Camp Widow™ will be held at the San Diego Marriott Hotel and Marina in San Diego, California from August 12-14, 2011.

Understanding and Managing Grief, June 12 - June 18, 2011

Best selections from Grief Healing's Twitter stream this week:

• Sacred Journey Retreat for widows, by the Grief Project Leadership Team, http://bit.ly/jOi8M6 via @Joannefunch

• Grieving Well: Meditation To Grow Through Loss, http://huff.to/kOOJNC via @Joannefunch

• Controlling Anger -- Before It Controls You, http://bit.ly/iVzYMC 

• Excellent! There Are No Medications for Acute Grief, http://t.co/EEBill7 by @DoctorKaraPC via @utahpolitics

• Touching! Ten Things You Should Know About Daddy Part II, http://ow.ly/5kcAG by @Kristine_Brite

Caregiving and Hospice, June 12 - June 18, 2011

Best selections from Grief Healing's Twitter stream this week:

• Transforming Caregiving: You Are Not Alone, http://ow.ly/5kVnd via @CAREjourney

• New at caregiving? Here's what to expect, http://ow.ly/5jV5A via @BodyAwareGrief @VillageMemorial @eldercarelink1

• What is pain? New short film and Pain Policy blog, http://wp.me/p1pJHd-5b via @jfclearywisc

• Book review, Learning How to Die: Handbook for Mortals http://t.co/83CtxnC via @DeathwDignity @hospicepharmacy 

• "Putting good info in people's hands leads to better-informed decisions. Thanks for your help," from @AliveHospice to @GriefHealing

Coping with Pet Loss, June 12 - June 18, 2011

Best selections from Grief Healing's Twitter stream this week:

• Touching video of hospice pets adopted through UMC ministry, http://youtu.be/5Q3namLRmjA via @nneelley

• Heartwarming: Dying Man's Final Wish to be Reunited With Dog, http://bit.ly/loUUMm via @hospicepharmacy

• Lost Pets: Tips on Getting Fluffy and Fido Back Home Again, http://bit.ly/mE0AJd by @PetMD via @Vet4Pets

• Camarillo Hospice holds support group for petloss, http://bit.ly/l6BYMq via @hospice_news 

Teen Misses Uncle’s Visitation and Funeral

Image source: www.bigstock.com

[Reviewed and updated December 6, 2021]

A reader writes:  I am 14 years old.  I didn't get to view my uncle’s body or go to his funeral, so I’d like to know what you can do to be able to move on when you didn't get a funeral.  Any tips?

My Response: I'm so sorry to learn of the death of your uncle, and especially sorry that you were unable to be present for his visitation and funeral.  I think your question serves to remind us of the value of the funeral – not for the deceased, but as a source of comfort to the relatives and friends of the loved one who has died. The visitation and funeral can be an important first step in the mourner’s journey through grief, as it offers the first opportunity to mourn the loss of a special person in the presence of others who also are in mourning. In addition, visiting the funeral home, seeing the body, and attending and participating in the funeral service all help to confirm and reinforce the reality of the death.

Caregiving and Hospice, June 5 - June 11, 2011

Best selections from Grief Healing's Twitter stream this week:

• How pets benefit us, including how his dog Rosie helps keep him healthy, http://t.co/SQLk2EX by @DrOz via @DrMartyBecker

• Broken promises in caregiving: Embrace Your Limits, free Webinar offers help, http://t.co/yS3MVAG by @caregiving 

• Great Article! Hospice: An Underutilized Resource Obscured by Myths, http://bit.ly/kvdxRl by @Seniors4Living via @SilveradoSenior

• Not All Attention is Created Equal | The Unprepared Caregiver, http://bit.ly/kNKF61

• Opiophobia in the United States: history and video, http://bit.ly/iHs3vS via @asra_husain

Understanding and Managing Grief, June 5 - June 11, 2011

Best selections from Grief Healing's Twitter stream this week:

• Sacred Spaces for Grieving, to connect and remember, http://tinyurl.com/6hn8lb8 by @esdeer via @faymclean

• Free Father’s DayWebinar: The Many Aspects of Loss, Monday, June 13, http://t.co/nCf3f6C by @opentohope

• Death of a Sibling: Overlooked Grief, http://bit.ly/klUi2p via @hospicepharmacy

• Excellent! Helping Your Teen Understand Death and Grief, http://ow.ly/5dzV4 @KidsHealth via @Work2MakeChange

• Beautiful! Action preempts grief when assigning meaning to life's work, http://bit.ly/iyf2QL by @StoryForHealing

Coping with Pet Loss, June 5 - June 11, 2011

Best selections from Grief Healing's Twitter stream this week:

• Yes! Society is slowly acknowledging pet loss as worthy of grief, http://bit.ly/mcafKj

• The power of guilt in making the euthanasia decision for your pet, http://ow.ly/59AhO by @VetWisdom

• A message everyone needs to hear and live: Stop Fighting Dogs! http://bit.ly/if0BbZ via @petpeaceofmind

• Beautiful post and reminder to reach out for help and support in grief, http://fb.me/YXKw01OJ via @georgiaslegacy 

• Comfort for Grieving Animal Lovers, http://bit.ly/4RNOV
   
  

Support for Grieving College Students: How to Start a Local Chapter of Students of AMF

[Reviewed and updated May 21, 2024]

When faced with the added stresses and challenges of anticipatory grief and loss, college students are especially in need of campus-based grief support.  Living away from home for the first time, already struggling to establish autonomy from their families, and learning to cope with the academic and social pressures of college life, they need a safe place where they can meet with their peers, share their experiences of loss and process their grief.

The Actively Moving Forward (AMF) Support Network "is dedicated to supporting young adults grieving the illness or death of a loved one. The program accomplishes its mission by creating Actively Moving Forward Campus Chapters on college campuses nationwide that connect and empower grieving college students to support one another and participate in community service in memory of deceased loved ones, raising awareness about the needs of grieving young adults, including through the annual National College Student Grief Awareness Week, and hosting national grief support programs, such as the “We Get It” Supportive Blog, and events, such as the National Conference on College Student Grief. We also support non-collegiate young adults by creating a wealth of virtual information, programming, and community."

Students interested in getting involved in AMF by joining or starting a local chapter of Students of AMF can learn more here.

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Related:

• College Grief and Actively Moving Forward (AMF)
• In Grief: College Student Considers Dropping Out of School
• Parent Loss: Continuing Their Song

© by Marty Tousley, RN, MS, FT, BC-TMH

Caregiving and Hospice, May 29 - June 4

Best selections from Grief Healing's Twitter stream this week:

• Are dramatic changes to Medicare necessary? What if more people considered hospice care? http://ow.ly/59Rwm via @devhaddad

• In reaction to Kevorkian's Death, Restating Yes to Palliative Care, http://wp.me/p1pJHd-4s via @jfclearywisc

• Find specialists in hospice and palliative medicine on @AAHPM Web site, http://ow.ly/57XZ7 via @SalixPharma

• Computers can help patients make decisions about end-of-life care, http://lat.ms/itH3F4 via @ctffox @hospicepharmacy

• Free hospice Webinars for health care professionals, http://bit.ly/jo5WIn by @HRRV

Understanding and Managing Grief, May 29 - June 4

Best selections from Grief Healing's Twitter stream this week:

• Coping with loss and the grief that comes with it, http://ow.ly/58hLl via @ctffox

• How we talk about death, http://ow.ly/59L3Y via @LaMuscarella

• How to choose a good therapist, http://bit.ly/m1Vwra by @HopefulMJ

• Updated! Grief Bibliography (books recommended by the bereaved, for the bereaved), http://bit.ly/9J8Wa4

• Everything you need to know about Camp Widow 2011, http://bit.ly/ifnsyo

Coping with Pet Loss, May 29 - June 4

Best selections from Grief Healing's Twitter stream this week:

• New book about pet loss: The Day Tiger Rose Said Goodbye, http://bit.ly/kQWtRf by @JaneYolen via @DutchessAbroad

• Author/animal chaplain Sid Korpi talks about pet loss on Tuesday, June 7 at 8 p.m. Central, http://wp.me/pA1gP-wi via @SidKorpi